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Parent Perspective on the College Process

by Gregg on 02-09-2009 08:30 AM

In reviewing recent articles, I came across this one in the Huffington Post from a parent who has just gone through the college application process with his high school senior.  The author, Peter Schwartz, provides a detailed account of the trials and tribulations of today's college admissions process and infuses the article with much humor and sarcasm.

 

A few things I noticed in his article are worthy of comment.  I appreciated his comments about the stress, tension, nagging, and conflict between him and his son, "Daniel," throughout the application process.  While this extreme is not necessarily the case with every family, the college search is certainly a time when many families come under great stress and relationships can suffer as a result.  Often an objective third-party, like a college counselor, can offer provide assistance allowing parents to take a step back.  This can allow for improved communication between students and parents, less tension, and improved applications as well.

 

I also liked that Mr. Schwartz commented on how different the application process is now than when he was applying to college in the 1970s.  Not only is it more complicated to apply and harder to be admitted than it was 40 years ago, it has changed significantly from even 5-10 years ago!  This is an important perspective for parents to understand.  Therefore, forget about other students you know who had lower grades than your child but were admitted to certain colleges-times have changed and each student and application is unique.  Be sure your child puts his/her best foot forward and hope for the best, but be prepared for the worst and be sure your college list includes schools with different levels of selectivity.

 

I also enjoyed reading the comments after the article.  What comments or points resonated with you?

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